About me

Hello, my name’s Don. I’m an American living in Frankfurt am Main, Germany, where I teach, ride a bicycle and go to the opera. 

I became an opera fan at the tender age of fifty-one. That was the year the Frankfurt opera house re-opened, after a long closure due to a fire. That was also a Mozart year, the two-hundredth anniversary of his death, and there were numerous exhibitions about him, especially in Vienna.

Mozart’s operas were played even more often than usual that year, and it happened that I saw three different productions of The Magic Flute within a few weeks of each other. I found it fascinating that the stage directors could make three very different shows using the same words and music, so I started reading up on opera and attending more often. Fortunately there are five opera houses within a 50 km radius of my house: Frankfurt, Darmstadt, Wiesbaden, Mainz and Gießen.

The final nudge came a year later when my textbook publisher started sending me around Germany on weekends to present our books to groups of teachers. My presentations were usually in the afternoons, so in the evenings I was free to see a performance at the nearest opera house. Germany has eighty-eight opera houses, of which I have been to sixty-three thus far, as listed in my post Sixty-three opera houses in Germany.


Cycling is something I’ve been doing off and on since I was about five, but I hasten to point out that cycling for me is primarily a means of transportation, not a sport and certainly not a business. I have never owned or worn any article of clothing made of lycra, so I’m not that kind of cyclist. In earlier years I used to take long bicycle tours around Europe, but today I cycle mainly in cities. I’m a great fan of urban bike sharing systems such as Vélib’ in Paris and Vélo’v in Lyon.

For me cycling is also a great time saver. I find I need one or two hours a day of moderate exercise to stay healthy. I also need one or two hours of transportation each day to get to destinations in different parts of the city. On a bicycle, these are the same one or two hours.


Brave new world in Evanston

I grew up in a house that no longer exists. It was in a city called Evanston, Illinois, which is the first suburb north of Chicago on Lake Michigan.

Evanston is no doubt a lovely place for those who fit in, but I was relieved when a scholarship from Columbia enabled me to escape and enjoy my four undergraduate years in New York City. After that I spent a year in Bern, Switzerland, followed by some time in Paris and an extended bicycle tour around Spain, Portugal, France and Germany.

As a draftee in the U.S. Army I spent a year in Vietnam, followed by some more travel in Europe and then a stint as news director of a listener-supported radio station in Berkeley, California. (See my post Mitterrand and the Panthéon for an episode from that period.)


I started teaching part-time while I was a student at the Goethe-University here in Frankfurt. As a Vietnam veteran from the U.S. Army I was entitled to educational benefits under the GI bill, but just before my first payment arrived the US dollar lost nearly a quarter of its value against the German D-Mark (due to the “Nixon shock” when the dollar was taken off the gold standard), so I had to look around for an additional source of income. I found it at the Adult Education Center of the city of Frankfurt, known in German as the Volkshochschule (VHS) — literally “the people’s university” — where I was taken on as a free-lance English teacher for evening courses.

Little did I know, when I started teaching at the VHS, that I would go on working at the same institution in various capacities for the next 46 years (and counting). After my studies I was given a full-time teaching position at the VHS, and later I served as head of the English department for many years.

At age 62 I joined a team that introduced a new database system for planning the courses, allotting the rooms, enrolling the students and paying the teachers. My role in this database project was to train the staff, write the user handbook and serve as a troubleshooter when people got muddled — which they often did because computers at that time were new and terrifying to staff members who couldn’t imagine running a school without huge drawers of index cards.

Volkshochschule Frankfurt (VHS)

Also at the Volkshochschule I have been teaching a German-language opera appreciation course called Opern-Gespräche since 1999, and a similar course in English called Frankfurt OperaTalk since 2002. Both of these courses are still going strong. If by any chance you live in or near Frankfurt and are interested in opera (and speak either German or English) you are cordially invited to enroll.

After retiring from my full-time position I went on teaching at the VHS on a free-lance basis, so now I have come full-circle and am essentially working the same way I did when I was a student 46 years ago.


My wife and I have three children and three grandchildren — all of whom can decide for themselves if they want to have any sort of internet presence. (So you won’t see much about them here.)


For over a dozen years I was an active member of a travel website called VirtualTourist (aka VT). By February 2017, when VirtualTourist ceased to exist, I had posted 3,290 tips/reviews about 124 destinations in 12 countries and had accumulated 1,007,692 page views, according to the statistics provided by the site. My largest page, entitled “My Paris: not only operas and bicycles . . .”, consisted of 435 tips/reviews, 1849 photos and five travelogues. I have backups of my VirtualTourist material, and I intend to use a small fraction of it as the basis for updated blog entries here on my own website.

In addition to reading each other’s tips and pages, we VirtualTourist members also met (and still meet) in person at VT-meetings all over the world. I have attended such meetings in Karlsruhe, Antwerp, Bacharach, Frankfurt, Paris, Bonn, Aachen and London, among other places.

Over the years, thirteen visiting VirtualTourist members came with me to performances at the Frankfurt Opera here in Frankfurt am Main, Germany.

VirtualTourist EuroMeet in Karlsruhe 2008

VirtualTourist was a highly successful website until the summer of 2008, when its founders made their fortunes by selling it to TripAdvisor. I met the founders earlier that summer at the big VT “EuroMeet” in Karlsruhe, Germany, but of course they didn’t say a word about the impending sale. After being sold, the site went into a slow decline as its social function drifted over to Facebook and its software, dating partly from the 1990s, became increasingly outmoded and couldn’t be made to work properly on the new tablets and smartphones.

Like a number of other websites, VirtualTourist had a system of ratings, rankings and awards that seemed childish to outsiders but provided entertainment and even motivation to those of us who were directly involved. For the record, I eventually got up to number 18 in the ranking system. I was pleased when my Paris page was chosen as the “Best City Travel Page” of 2012 and especially when I was voted “VTer of the year” in 2015 — though now that the site has gone out of existence these honors have lost what little significance they once had.

See also: Cutting edge technology (of bygone decades).

23 thoughts on “About me”

  1. Hello Don – Like Sarah I was surprised that you got into Opera “late”. Thanks to my parents and their collection of scratchy gramophone records,. a brilliant Education Department that negotiated entrance tickets for today’s equivalent of 5p ( 1 shilling in old money) to Halle concerts and touring opera companies, plus the Great Caruso and a new girl at school, a German/ Jewish girl already addicted. One week we saw the Great Caruso at every cinema within walking distance, and frequently played truant to attend matinees of London based companies on tour. As a student at Cardiff University I was “in” at the early years of Welsh National Opera.
    Now octogenarians and living some distance from Cardiff we enjoy the streamed performances available at local venues.
    Thanks for your interesting Blog – I enjoy reading it.

    1. Thanks, Liz. I’m glad you like my blog. I have only seen one performance of the Welsh National Opera up to now, and that was a guest performance at the Hippodrome in Birmingham. Now I know a young singer who was a finalist at the Cardiff BBC Singer of the World competition and sang three performances at the WNO, all in the same week.

      1. That was quite a big ask for any singer!
        We saw all the rounds of this years Singer of the World competition (some live, others on TV) as well as the Song ( formerly Lieder) competition and were impressed by the standard.
        My daughter who worked at WNO for over 10 years was more critical and bemoaned the ” lack of
        feeling and failure to communicate dramatically”. But conceded there was a lot of talent there!

        1. The competition was especially exciting for us this year because two of the twenty finalists are members of the Frankfurt Opera ensemble: Louise Alder, who won the audience prize, and Iurii Samoilov, representing the Ukraine. (Iurii was my guest at Frankfurt OperaTalk one evening last season.)

  2. Ich freue mich, Dich nun auch über Deine Webseite näher kennenzulernen. Die Zeiten mit VT waren toll! Aber die Zeiten ändern sich

  3. Wow. That’s probably the most interesting About Me page I’ve ever read – what a life you’ve led! Thanks for visiting couchmagpie.com today and keep up the good work! 🙂

  4. Ahh thanks for the add on, and welcome to the world of blogging. I am doing since 2010 and it is great. Sorry about VT but I saw it coming when there was not even interest to monitor the forums. I see you have a lot to work on in the blog. Cheers

  5. Hi Don
    First off, thank you for checking out my website, I appreciate the visit and long for constructive feedback (it’s been a work in progress and I’m thinking of scrapping the whole thing).
    What an interesting life you have lead! I will check out more of your blog when time permits, I find it fascinating!

  6. What a fascinating story. And thanks for the follow on my blog. I will be returning the courtesy as I’m sure to be interested in your stories. I will apologise in advance that I won’t comment often, as I am also supposed to be working on a manuscript. Blogging is fun, but it sure can be time-consuming:-)

      1. Thanks! I am mostly deaf, so it would be wasted on me, but I found several other things in your blog to love, and also adore the architecture of the opera houses!

        1. Lots more opera houses still to come, including some really beautiful ones (Lille, Milan, …) and some that only a mother could love (Massy, Pforzheim, …)

  7. Hi Don, Tonight is the 5th occasion am reading ‘About Me’. I want to admit that this is the most interesting, engaging, inspiring, truthful & the nicest arrangement of alphabets I have come across on the internet. With due respect to others, I would rate it the highest. A link is shared with my young colleague who is about to embark on his entrepreneural venture so that he could gain from this write-up. I hope we meet someday. Best wishes, Vijay.

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